A change has to come Brothers! And that change must start with us! We must stand up for what is good in our lives. Our children and the women we chose to bare those children! We need to spend more time with our children (it can never be to much time)! We must tell our sons and daughter that we love them and that they are everything to us! We must read books with them and explain the world we live in to them. We must study with them and learn with them. We must read a holy text with them {bible, quran or torah} and show them the glory of GOD that is in us and flows through us! YOU are a GOD {king} brother, so act as if you are.
As black men we need to step it up greatly with the relationships of children, especially our daughters . Love them, and show them extra attention, so they do not go through their whole life seeking attention from men and doing anything to get it! Take your daughters on a date! Many of the things that you do with their mother should be done with your daughters on a smaller scale. Buy them flowers. Establish a daughter-and-dad day. Take them to the movies and/or out to eat. Teach them to cook. Show them how important a home cooked meal is to the family. This will prpepare her for the family she might have one day.
Remember this brother, your sons first hero should be his father! Your daughter first love should be her father! By your standards all men will be gauge if they are good men or not! So let's set the standard high so these weak men have to step there game up to date our daughters. This will ceate a stronger generation of young, beautiful, black couples in the future!
Peace, Love and Unity Brothers!
Take the time and do what our elders did for us, coach little league, or basketball, or just take a kid to a game. Time to
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Cuz Ronald